So, the pictures below show my garden at the start of June this year. With 2 small kids and the Summer holidays looming, the thought of having to take them to the fucking park everyday made me want to shoot myself in the head renovate my garden so they could have a place to play and I could have a place to drink wine and watch them play.
I had a bit of a challenge on my hands. I got a few gardeners in for quotes. They never came back. I don’t blame them to be honest, it was like nature had reclaimed a small patch of land for its own. I was tempted to call National Geographic so they could do a bloody case study or something. Seriously, the photos don’t show just how much fucking nature there was in there! I felt a bit bad, you know, for killing stuff, but I had to start somewhere.
#1. It’s not going to get better on its own
Every single evening, after work, after the kids were asleep, I single-handedly started mowing, digging up shit and generally killing stuff.
#2. You can only do it yourself, but that doesn’t mean you’re alone
#3. You cannot anticipate the amount of crap that you will discover
It started fairly slowly, but already just after mowing I could see the other side of my garden some progress.
#4. Baby steps are actually massive steps. On Day 1 you cover a lot of ground.
I was unprepared for the amount of crap that I would have to actually remove from the garden.
I ended up leaving all my garden tools out there overnight because I was so exhausted that I just couldn’t bring myself to put them away.
Can you see that small bush formation behind the 6ft stump on the left hand side? That was my nemesis.
#5. The things you think will be easy, may be hard. And the hard things will probably be easier than you realise.
That ‘cute little bush formation’ comprised no fewer than 20, yes fucking 20 small box privet hedges! It took me about 6-7 hours to dig that shit out. And then, well I’d already used up 2 brown bins so I had no idea what to do with them. Fortunately, I plonked them on Facebook, and some woman rocked up in the world’s smallest car (Toyota Aygo) to collect them for free.
#6. The Universe will provide if you give it a chance.
For some reason known only to the previous owner of our house, the box privets were protecting the World’s Largest Bracken Plant. I didn’t know it was the world’s largest bracken plant until I had to start digging the fucker up. That took another 2 days:
When I had unearthed the crown of the bracken, a little face popped out at me to say hello. I ran inside to google ‘lizards in the UK’, only to find that yes, they existed, the one I’d seen was a baby (excellent), and even better, they were fucking protected. Thereby followed the world’s politest eviction ever, where I went to the crown every 5 mins to knock on the see if they’d gone. They finally went. Which left me with this:
A great big hole in the grass. Fan-bloody-tastic.
#7. You may have some holes to fill.
By this point, the lawn had well and truly pissed me off, so I turned my death ray to the borders…
Then, well I could no longer put off the inevitable. I was going to have to dig up the lawn if I ever wanted anything to grow there again. To be honest I wasn’t entirely sure I if I did want anything to grow there ever again, but the thought of going to the bastard park everyday the kids having a nice garden to play in kept me going.
#8. Remember the big picture when dealing with the little shit
I dug up the entire fucking lawn. By hand. By myself:
That machine in the background is a tiller I rented but never bothered to use.
#9. You will surprise yourself
I couldn’t believe that I had managed to get it to that state. It had taken me from 2nd June until 16th July, every single night. I calculated that I had spent around 100 hours ripping it all out. Then it was time to call in the cavalry:
I knew that if I laid the sand and turf myself I’d probably fuck it up, so a nice colleague who used to be a landscape gardener came round to do it. “Where the fuck were YOU 2 months ago?! Thank you!” I said.
#10. Be realistic in what you can achieve alone.
#11. Call in the big guns whenever you need.
#12. Enjoy the fruits of your labour.